Not who is right, but what is right.

This week has there has been a lot of eye opening experiences from the time I have spent in class. If anything, my heart and love go out to Brother Williams during this trial that has come up. And I gladly give my support to him at this time. We all need to have to courage to share our opinions and what we know to be true to help strengthen others, even if some will not agree with what we do. So don't be shy, SHARE YOUR OPINION BECAUSE IT MATTERS!
 I feel that leads me into my next topic of communication when conflicts arise. If we are too shy or scared to hurt someone's feelings or that we will be judged for feeling or thinking a certain way, that problem will never be solved. It takes to people being open and honest with each other to fix problems and solve conflict effectively.
 I always thought that conflicts were mostly solved by using a compromise that would help both parties of the marriage to get what they want. this may work, but what about the third party of your marriage? That's right, what about God? Healthy marriages have a husband and wife who don't compromise but rather come to a consensus together, that is both knowing really what the right thing is that need to be done. Its not a matter of who is right, its a matter of counseling together and with the lord to find what it is that is right. It may be something like what car to buy, when to have kids, what the right way to end an argument is. They may be little things but they may also be the little things in our life that we counsel with the lord to know the right thing that need to be done. god may no necessarily car what car you buy, but I feel that he cars about you and your family and he will help in the process to know the best thing that will help your family.
 I know that as we do this with all conflicts, trials, and decisions that need to ne made, you will be guided to know exactly what is right. he won't let you done.